How About Your Personal Style?

Maybe we should take a look at this

http://leathertee.com/the-epidemic-of-fantasy-personal-style

The thing about humans, is that we get too caught up in our minds sometimes, and actually forgetting the real life in front of us, we forget to do stuff, we forget to act on what actually matters.

We are too afraid to change, too afraid to make a difference. We keep trying to blend in, to be as good as the person next to us, to keep up with other people. The problem with keeping up, is that you will never outpace anyone. You will always get left behind if you only try to "keep up"

This is turning into a personal rant, so I'll stop right here, and suggest that we START ACTING. Good day everyone.



Cheers!
-The Dilly Chic-

Zebra












Actually I did a fun photo with my friend at the rooftop, a few days ago. again haha..
i just wanna show you my new Assymetric Zebra Long Tanktop from my clothing line.
And, here's the song "A Thousand Miles" that describes my mood right now .
Yeah, a lil bit sad ...
Okay, happy day !<3 xoxo

The Wall

My posts are getting off topic, but I have to write about this one. This is important not only to women, but to everyone in general.

Motivational Wall
My wall in my old room


That was a part of my wall in my old rented room.

The rest of the walls were covered with my treasures, a badly hand drawn world map, a big piece of doodling paper for anger purposes, a picture of my favorite car....

They are my treasures, and when I had to move, these are the first things that I thought of.
"What am I gonna do with these?" I can't throw them away, so I put it in my friend's room next door until I can settle in my new place later.

Why is this such a big deal to me? The wall, as I like to call it, reminds me of the times when I wrote and created each piece of the puzzle. When I look at a certain piece of post-it, I remember the reason I wrote that certain piece, I flash back to the time I wrote it, and how I felt back then. Each writing means something.  So every time I feel like crap, I look at my wall, read a piece according to my situation at the time, remembered the loop of feeling playing all over again, take a deep breath, and move on.

It goes on like that every time, every single time...

That particular wall helps me so much in life. It cuts down the time I need to sulk and blame the world. 

It helps me.

So why don't you make one and help future you. Future you will be so grateful that you have made that wall. Each time you feel anything, analyze your own emotion, what causes it, and what piece of advice you've once heard from another person that could possibly make you feel better if you hear it again. Or maybe a personal advice from you addressed to the future you, so he/she wouldn't make the same mistakes you just did. Write it on a piece of paper (it does NOT have to be a post-it), and tape it on the wall. 

Done. Doesn't take more than 5 minutes to do, saves you hundreds of minutes of blues later on. If I may suggest, you should do it in colorful, clear, and fun font. I mean, the whole point is to cheer you up, not to confuse yourself with "What the hell did I wrote?" situation.



Cheers!
-The Dilly Chic-

Music and the soul

"Do you like music?"
"I don't know, do you like breathing?"
They're lines from a movie I can't exactly recall, but please tell me if you know them. My point is, everybody love music. When they say they don't or "well, sometimes I listen to them, but not that much", either A) They're lying or B) They haven't found their taste yet.

Arcade Fire


So those who have found their "music soulmate" should be grateful, very grateful.  I myself noticed that my taste changes variably. I used to listen to angry, lashing out at life music, then to the more mainstream side, and lately some good indie electropop/ indie bands.

My taste of music is pretty much stuck a year or so. I could never be able to keep up with everything all at once. But I enjoy this so called method better, I have more time to absorb the music, get high (non alcoholic and drug free high), listen it a couple hundred times more, and move on.

Arcade Fire - The Suburbs - Music and the soulAngels and Airwaves - Love Part 2 - Music and the soul


The Temper Trap - Conditions - Music and the soulNiki & the Dove - Instinct - Music and the soul

Still not moving on from these albums, they struck my soul too much, they touch my melancholic, deep silence mode too much.

I'm sure we all have some songs and artists that make us unable to move on from them (for God knows what reasons), but for me, I'm still gonna keep looking.




Cheers!
-The Dilly Chic- 

Orange Salmon ...







I'm back, yess it's me :D
Alright, i'm in love with orange salmon colour now.. I bought this pleated long skirt when i was holiday in Jogja, omg i really love this one, feel so comfort and lovely !! And Crop fringe top, oh my god, it's so cute, unique and soft..
Now i'm in Jogja again to meet my crush here.. *shy*
Then i mix and match Pleated long skirt "Orange Salmon" with Fringe Crop Top (Soft Green) , haha.. Looks like Sushi colour, huh? Ready to eat?  LOL
Aniway, i bought "Indian Hats" from Kuta, Bali, and Dreamcathcer Necklace from Popoluca Stuff, online shop .
Thank's to :
Photographer : Tiureza
Location : Fajar Indah
Well, Happy Fasting to you all ! <3

It's Sunday!

What are you doing on Sundays?

I personally choose this day to quit from the usual activities I do (not really quit, just taking a breather). I don't quit blogging or maintaining my website though, they're my babies.


When I do get bored from doing those things though, I simply move my laptop to the nearest coffee place (why do you have to be the nearest, Starbucks?!), or pick some stuff at the mall, or just catching up with some friends. This particular Sunday I might spend it to hunt a good lip gloss, though. :)


What are you doing on Sundays?



Oh, and happy Sunday, everyone! Have a great one!
-The Dilly Chic-

Let's Talk Shoes...

Shall we?
There are so many new birth of shoes that I honestly can't keep up with all of them. Seriously, you have to admit that there are so many kinds of shoes that you can't mention what they're called.

Most likely our basic knowledge of shoe types include flats, heels, sandals, wedges, and ... That's it. To me at least, that's as far as I know concerning shoes.

Soooo, my curiosity urges my to find out more about these new types of shoes so I won't miss out. *Note that some of these may not be new to you, but they are to me! Feel free to judge :)

Clog Heels, I'm pretty sure I've seen this kind a while back, but they seem to boom again lately, so I'll put it here
Clog Heels - New types of shoes
Clog Heels with Slingbacks




Flip-flop Wedges, self explanatory. They're flip flops with wedges characteristics (the heels and the platforms)

Flip-flop Wedges - New types of shoes
Black flip-flop wedges

Flatforms, really creative huh? The creators probably realized the discomfort of ordinary platform shoes, and made them flat altogether, no heels and no receding platforms. I can't say I'm a big fan, but they do add inches to your height.

Flatforms - New types of shoes
Yellow flatforms with slingbacks

Oxford pumps, also what it sounds like, combination of oxford shoes with high heels and pumpkin front
Oxford Pumps - New types of shoes
Black leather oxford pumps

Moccasins and skimmers, wait, I know these types for quite some time, but I never even knew what they're called!
Moccasins - New types of shoes
Brown suede moccasins
Skimmers - New types of shoes
Pink skimmers

That's all I can think of for a while, will surely update this as soon as I find new types of shoes that will rock our world!
Update: Do you have the heels for every occasion? http://leathertee.com/heels-for-every-occasion



Cheers!
-TheDillyChic-

Problems with Short Hair

Hair issue is the most common one we face every day. Bad curl, hair fall, dandruff, and so on. That's why most women decide to chop off their hair short. Shorter hair means shorter problems right? Not really.

Even though short hair takes care of some problems, like hair fall and split ends, it doesn't solve everything. Mostly when you just have your newly cut hair, you will get rid of old hair problems, but then you realize that you have new issues to deal with.
Short hair tends to be lighter, so, your hair will be more out of control. You wouldn't be able to get the curl or the shape right to what you want, because you realize that your hair loses volume when it gets cut.

You can't create as much hairstyles as when you still had your long hair, right? Well, there are pretty limited hairdo options when it comes to short hair. This can mean nightmare to some women, but it can also scream "Hooray" for those who hate spending too much time on the mirror.

New splits will occur. Just because you cut your problems away, it doesn't mean that those annoying splits will stop harassing you. Most likely if you don't take good care of your hair, the splits will come back haunting again. So after you cut your hair and get rid of the splits, always take better care of your hair.

These problems aren't really that big of a deal compared to problems long, heavy hair has. But still, there are problems, so let's not get too carried away with the whole "cut your hair, get rid of your problems" imagination. I hope that you will be ready to take on short hair! It's really fun once you have one!



Cheers!
- The Dilly Chic -

SUNSET - ROOFTOP

Oh yeah, as i said before that i would love to take a pic again at the rooftop! i'm addicted. hahaha..
Today i went to rooftop at SS (16:30 pm) yeah it's mean i'm waiting for sunset (again)
haha.. I really love sunset, see the golden light sunrise it's so romantic for me. Do you think what i think? :D
And! very good to did a some of photoshoot .
With my little friend Tiurrecha again, she's still 18 years old but she look so stylish and also love fashion!
Uh! i'm so happy to hear that. It's mean we can take a picture all the time! We both narcisist and silly :D
hahaha.. Alright, i wanna show you the picture that i took today, evening.. Umm, i just can't wait to upload on my blog :D
editing by me .
And let me know what you think! ;)












Outfit : Cutting Top DIY - Floral Skirt from ThePrettyRabbit - Black Wedges from Random Store- John Lennon Sunglasses i bought in Kuta, Bali

Thank's for reading ♥

GALAXY ROOFTOP











Heels from Yongki Komaladi/ Galaxy Assymetric Dress from The Pretty Rabbit/ Floral Crown from The Pretty Rabbit

Actually this photoshoot I've done about 3 weeks ago, but I just could upload on my blog. I wore Assymetrical Galaxy Dress . I really love this one, i sell it on my online store, and dont forget to follow pretty rabbit's twitter here --> ThePrettyRabbit
And i really love this location so much that i have been long time looking for spot like that, yeah.. i mean, rofftop. Just simply, there is at my best friend's dorm. Ah! i'm so glad and lucky to found it.
And you know i just can't wait to do photoshoot again at the same spot :D
I did this photoshoot when afternoon. Good light, i love it.. golden and yellowish.. Hmmm so my new colour hair and skin look so exotic.. do you think what i think? :D
Photographer by Jenisa Noerdita, she's my best friend in Solo. She took so many pic, it's all because of for her portfolio 
for the internship requirement. Now she internship in Jakarta as photographer. Ah, i'm so proud to hear that! i would love to see more of her portfolio !
:D
Well, this song remind me when i was on the way to Bali, ahh i fuckin love this one !!! do you wanna hear ? 
Okay, I hope you guys love it and made your day bright ;) 


thank's for reading ♥